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Ask a lot of questions. Prov 18:13
This is very likely a symptom of a deeper issue.
Encourage them to identify other issues in the marriage and talk to their spouse about those issues.
Encourage them to get counseling.
This is a wisdom issue. Therefore, there is plenty of room for disagreement.
Whether a teen should date will depend upon the maturity of the teen.
There may be value in training a teen in this area while they are still under your authority. Eph 6:4
Older, mature teens who care about godliness could be allowed to date with close supervision and clear guidelines.
Seeking reconciliation is the responsibility of both parties. Matt 18:15-17; 5:23-24
Deal with your own heart first. Matt 7:3-5; Matt 12:17-21
Before making an accusation, ask questions to confirm that a sin was committed. Prov 18:13, 17
Give a gentle admonition from Scripture.
It is not inherently selfish to want something; a desire becomes selfish when I insist on it. 1 Cor 13:5
I should be more concerned about what the Lord commands me to do than what He commands others to do. Matt 7:3-5
God gives to both spouses unconditional commands to give. Eph 5:22-25
The commonly held meet-in-the-middle ethic for marriage is a recipe for disaster.
Quality time is not a preference issue and should be pursued for the health of the marriage.
There are two biblical reasons for ending a marriage – sexual immorality and abandonment by an unbelieving spouse. Matt 19:9; 1 Cor 7:15
Just like dealing with any other sin, God does give us principles for dealing with abuse in marriage.
In cases of physical abuse, God’s ordained authorities should be informed and involved. Matt 18:15-17; Rom 13:1-5
Though Scripture does not allow for divorce in cases of abuse, separation is consistent with God’s care for the defenseless.
Masturbation is wrong because it violates God’s principles for sexuality. 1 Cor 7:3-4
The best course is to tell the doctor about your convictions and ask for alternatives.
If the doctor will not allow other alternatives, find another doctor.
The body is the temple of the Holy Spirit. 1 Cor 6:19-20
Gluttony is sin. (Pro 23:20; 28:7). Being overweight is not.
We should not push our conscience on others regarding specific food choices. (Col 2:16; Rom 14:3; 1 Tim 4:1-4)
It is a profitable, virtuous thing to take care of one’s body. (1 Tim 4:8; Prov 31:17) However, it is difficult to define for ourselves or others what it means to be “fit.” It should be left to the individual conscience.